Nov 15 2009
Get Real
To have a goal and miss it is not failure. To not have goals & dreams; or worse yet, to have them and not strive for their attainment, however, is IMHO a failure. To spectate your way through life, sitting back & doing little but pointing out whatever faults you can find in someone else, does not make you look any better in anyone’s eyes – not even your own I might suppose. With the possible exception of yourself, no one of any intelligence is deceived by your misdirection – your “look at their mistakes and not mine”, but a rising tide lifts all ships.
Unless you’re “a natural”, to be good at something you must first have to be willing to be bad at it, to realize that you’re going to make mistakes and learn from them. Nobody really wants to make them, but mistakes are just that, mis-takes. They’re part of the learning process and as long as we’re willing to learn from them they’ll serve their useful purpose. As long as we keep trying to bury them, we’ll continue to think they never existed, repeat them, and we’ll not get from them that which was intended. Continue Reading »










